We have discussed earlier marriage phobia, marital frustration within a marriage. Here on this page, we will talk about different problems couples face and when they might need counseling. Through marriage counseling, one can solve the problems within a marriage easily.
Adjustment & adaptation problem:-
The most evident problem in a marital relationship is the adjustment with a new lifestyle. It is tough to adapt to new people, new environment, new routine, new food habit etc. Everyone faces this adjustment problem, but in an Indian marriage scenario, women face more such problems than men. Through counseling, this problem can be resolved easily.
Expectations of in-laws sometimes create problems in a marriage. They can’t realize that the newly married girl has left her home, family, and her known comfortable zone behind and come to a totally new and different place. She might be uncomfortable in some situations, might be frightened, horseradish. Burdened with responsibilities, duties, norms, values and so on, the life of a newly married girl can become suffocating at times. Counseling can help in such situations. A couple therapies would work better.
Acceptance problem: –
In-laws might not be able to accept the newly married women as she is, the bride also can have similar acceptance problem. It might take too long to realize that the new place is her new home and the new peoples in her life are her family members now. She will have to understand the requirement of that family and move ahead with life. Speech therapy can make you understand how to deal with such problems.
Communication problem: –
Communication is not just saying your words rather the way of saying as well. Communication gap creates misunderstanding between couples and between the bride and in-laws. At times, over thinking and judgmental approach can also cause miscommunications.
Time management: –
After marriage, time might need to be divided into many new tasks within the family. A change to the daily routine makes it crucial to managing the time carefully. After taking care of your responsibilities for your family, you will have to make time for your profession, for your partner, and last but not the least for yourself. Through counseling on ‘time management processes and guidelines,’ you will learn about better ways of managing time.
Health and sex-related problem: –
Sexual incompatibility and sex phobia can cause a major problem in a relationship. It is proven that sex phobias are more common in women than in men. Psychology plays a vital role here. If a woman goes through marriage related depression, they experience much lower sex drive. There are several other reasons which can hamper sex life in a marriage. We have discussed those points in our page couple sex therapy.
Thus, it is true that there are several marital problems with which couples have to deal. Dr. A d Mahapatra as a marriage counselor will guide you to cope up with these challenges and help you lead a blissful life. Visit Mon Ke Niye clinic for more information and guidance.
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